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Relationships are a wonderful part of life. And they can also be a lot of work. More than likely, you and your partner are pretty busy. Whether it’s full-time jobs, kids, pets after work responsibilities, or regular travel, there’s always going to be something preventing you from slowing down and spending quality time together.
Why not use Valentine’s Day this year as an excuse to do something new, something different? You’ll be tempted to take a shortcut and choose an item or two from the mountains of typical gifts in the stores: chocolates, flowers, teddy bears, etc. But while these can be nice to receive, how meaningful are they really?
Dine In
Just think: a romantic date night for just the two of you at home. If you’re like most busy couples, you haven’t done this lately—maybe not since you were first dating. But taking some time to slow down and really appreciate the moment together can work wonders for a relationship. People rarely sit at the dinner table together anymore—or even have a dinner table—so doing this can make it extra romantic.
Instead of resorting to ordering out or making a quick, convenient meal like you would throughout the week, plan an entire dinner menu together that includes your favorite foods. Think about how nice it could be to prepare and eat everything together without having to worry about the time or other responsibilities (or technology; don’t forget to turn off those cell phones)
Whether you do this over candlelight with fine china or sit together on the living room floor, the point is that you’ll be sharing a meaningful moment together.
Movie night at home
As fun as it is to go out to a movie at the theater, having a movie night at home can make everything more meaningful—and a lot of fun. You can purchase your own movie snacks, make your own popcorn (and choose your toppings) and choose a movie you both love that isn’t in theaters anymore.
Let’s also not ignore the fact that it’s easier to get closer this way too—it’s much more comfortable to snuggle up on the couch with blankets and pillows than in those stiff theater chairs. Plus, you can just be together, away from the noisy movie crowds.
Weekend getaway
Doing new things and exploring together are important for a relationship, but it’s easy to get stuck in a rut with daily life. Why not shake things up and have an adventure together by planning a mini-vacation this Valentine’s Day? If you’re thinking, “I can’t afford to take a vacation right now,” don’t worry; you don’t have to make it expensive, or even take off work.
Think about a place new but nearby that you can explore for the weekend. Maybe that’s a local art gallery, the zoo, or a new eating place. If you can do a hotel for a few nights, that’s a meaningful touch. Plus, you’ll come back having some great stories to tell—and more importantly, you’ll always remember that Valentine’s Day together.
Recreate your first date
Thinking about where your relationship first started is a romantic way to reconnect and reminisce about the “good ole days” together. If you can, go back to the same location of your first day. Another option might be to simply mimic the same activities as your first date. If you went to dinner and movie and ended the night talking and looking at the stars for hours, go do that!
There’s nothing that can compare with remembering why and how you first fell in love, and this can be life-changing for couples who might have been feeling a little disconnected due to the overwhelm of life.
Couples Massage
It is common to try to avoid the stress that comes with everyday life but it is more important to make your well-being a priority. Why not start with being concerned about the joy and health of your partner? The Valentine’s Day Home Couple Massage will allow both of you to enjoy a complete relaxation with no stress or tension while encouraging the care of your emotional health as an integral part of your relationship. Perhaps you will decide that home massage will become a must as an anti-stress tool.
Valentine’s Day seems superficial on the outside, but it can really be a chance for important time in a relationship. When you have busy lives, it’s hard enough to schedule exclusive time together, so don’t miss the opportunity this year to plan something meaningful you can both enjoy and remember for many years to come.
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